Judged And Sentenced

I found a disc by accident which contained a photo album of my vacation back in 2007/08.

Looking through it reminded me of the friendship I used to share with these people. Most of them are still close with me despite having commitments in different places, but some have broken off the group.

What disappoints me the most is how these friendships had to end over petty reasons. I lost two people who I used to see as my best friends.

One felt mistreated by others and 'bans' them from being friends,for life. I was caught in a middle of a crossfire and both sides decided to point finger at me and made me guilty party. I had little defense as both rather listen to each other who back stabbed themselves. However, judgement was made by only one.
Judge says: having looked at the facts from my perspective, Donovan Tan is found to be . . . GUILTY ! And therefore sentenced to a lifetime ban from being friends.

The other has a growing ego and feels that she is far more superior and expects other friends to obey her. I disobeyed by

Not going to a club with her during my exam period.
Refusing to join her for a re-scheduled clubbing session.I pleaded my innocence : 'I don't want to see somebody who shows me a sour face for no apparent reason. I had no reason to spend money on her in a club. Lastly, to spend so much money on a long face and then go back early during the 'peak' hours of the party all because of her is ridiculous.'Judgement : Donovan Tan,is found to be . . . GUILTY !

And I lost two friends.